INXS Is “History”!

Today, while Miss 11 and I were out driving in the car, the great INXS classic: Devil Inside came on the radio and almost immediately my mood accelerated. It was 1988 all over again and I was basking in my first year of freedom at Sydney University. Yet, as much as I can be the penultimate in embarrassing mothers, I wasn’t singing, dancing or worst of all throwing my undies out the car window in honour of the late great Michael Hutchence. No. I had both hands on the wheel, both eyes on the road and not a hair out of place to betray the devil inside me.


Devon- a manufactured meat product sold in Australia and NZ.

That’s when my daughter started talking about how this song reminded her of a kid who was dead inside (I think this was her interpretation of being boring), and asked me to clarify the words of the song. Was it “dead inside” or “devon inside”? She also added that they could improve their diction. I had to chuckle at the thought of the late, great Michael Hutchence having devon inside. Although, in the land of young kids and school sangers, of course, devon inside makes perfect sense. Indeed, you might even have devon and a splash of tomato sauce inside two buttered slices of bread.

That’s when I asked Miss 11 if she’d heard of Michael Hutchence? Sadly, that just resulted in a blank stare and then she asked me if I’d heard of Josh Hutcherson who played the leading role of Peeta Mellark in  The Hunger GamesSadly, I had not. So, we were even. Nil all.

After that, my husband and I decided that the kids needed to get an education and we conjured “Devil Inside” up onto our TV, bringing 1988 back to life. While we were very excited and really looking forward to sharing something special to us with them, for the kids, it was a lesson in ancient history in the same way my own grandfather used to talk about his father and grandfather making wheels for carts in the old smithy. Moreover, while to us,  the music sounded contemporary enough, showing the kids the film clips put the nail in the coffin. Indeed, even I found them dated.

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I guess I can take comfort in the knowledge that I am at least a step ahead of my parents. They each went to see The Beatles on their 1966 Australian tour. My mother also tells a story about how she had tickets to go and see Peter, Paul and Mary but her parents forced her to go on a family holiday to visit her Great Uncle out in Burke in far Western NSW. Mum, Dad and four “adult children” squeezed into the FJ Holden without air-conditioning or a radio. Mum played the piano in some kind of concert while she was out there. A promising pianist at the Sydney Conservatorium of Music visiting the outback was a big deal back then. Not the Queen perhaps, but perhaps an alternative to the pub.

When I was studying history back at school and university, we didn’t really look at the music people listened to as a way of interpreting the times. Of course, there were newspapers, novels and art. Yet, at least as far as I can recall, not much of an emphasis on music. Yet, for those of us who’ve lived through the times, music is such a part of it. It’s always there in the foreground, the background or stuck inside our heads even when we wish it would stop. Couples have their song and when an old song comes on, it’s like jumping straight into a time machine. I’m there.

In addition to sharing these songs with our kids as a part of us, I also want them to know their own culture, and their own cultural history. I want them to read some of our great books. Listen to our songs. Not only see a kookaburra sitting on a gum tree, but also know the song (even if it’s no longer cool to sing along now they’re teens).

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The family standing in front of the Dog on the Tuckerbox (back right hand side), Gundagai, NSW, Australia.

Last January, when we were driving down to Melbourne to catch the ferry over to Tasmania, we drove through the famous country town of Gundagai. This town is not only famous for its statue: “The dog sits on the Tuckerbox”, but also the song: Along the Road to Gundagai, where the chorus goes:

There’s a track winding back to an o-old fashioned shack
Along the road to Gundagai
Where the blue gums are growin’ and the Murrumbidgee’s flowin’
Beneath the sunny sky
There my mother and daddy are waitin’ for me
And the pals of my childhood once more I shall see
Then no more will I roam when I’m headin’ straight for home
Along the road to Gundagai 

Well, the kids almost murdered me as I kept singing the song as we approached Gundagai. I just wanted them to know their own culture, but there was no respect. None whatsoever, just a combined cringe.


Paul Hogan as Crocodile Dundee.

Sometimes, I feel that bringing my kids up with an Australian culture and influence, is like migrants trying to bring their kids up with a knowledge of the old country. That my own Australian culture feels just as foreign here due to the omnipresent American influence. Moreover, with the Internet now part of our homes, our kids are becoming Americanized in a much more intimate and personal way. One afternoon, I heard my son chatting over the Internet to a young kid from the American deep South. This was interesting and novel in a way and something I could never have done as a child. However, it wasn’t long and our son was speaking American around the house and I wanted it to stop. The same with our daughter. We have tomato sauce, not “ketchup”. We have cupboards/wardrobes not “closets”. We have biscuits, although we also have cookies but they’re an American style biscuit not your standard tea-dunking thing. We are our own people, our own place.

It’s not always easy to know what it means to be Australian. We are a multi-cultural society and any discussion of being Australian also includes Aboriginal Australia. For me, at least, it’s not just about white Australia or male/female Australia but a diverse mix which, despite all it’s diversity, is still it’s own nation with it’s own culture. Moreover, while our population is small, we don’t need to stop being who we are and become someone else to survive or make a go of it. We are beautiful just the way we are. I might not know what that it is, but I sure know what it isn’t!

Perhaps, I need to go and think of a way of rewriting Waltzing Matilda for the modern day and I’d better not ask INXS to perform it.

How are you conquering the cultural divide with your kids? Do you think its important for countries to maintain their own cultures? Or, should be all just merge into a global monoculture? As individuals, do we have a say? 

xx Rowena

12 thoughts on “INXS Is “History”!

  1. trentpmcd

    I did see INXS once. They opened for the Moody Blues, as weird as that sounds. The different parts of America are still very different from one another, with many subcultures, but we are much, much more homogenized than we were even just a couple of decades ago. It’s sad to think that some odd mixture of American culture has so invaded the rest of the world.

  2. TanGental

    I don’t worry too much now the kids are in their 20s. They understand a nuanced approach to cultures but then I said to them early in that I’d not buy them stuff but I would fund experiences and they took me at my word and travelled far and wide. They’ve both seen over 40 countries and have a deep appreciation of differences. So don’t worry too much. PS their musical taste is shite.

  3. Tails Around the Ranch

    As my mum used to say, “life is often wasted on the young.” Sometimes those cultural divides never change. That said, I know my own kids like to ask me “remember when….” questions all the time. We laugh like silly school girls too often. Luckily we all enjoyed the same movie in the 80’s and I still do.

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  5. New Journey

    My kids fathers are from other countries, so not only do they have they have my family culture, they have there fathers to understand….I let them decide how much they want to know about me…they are more about living and enjoying than trying to learn about my daughters been back to Italy where her fathers from several times and knows all the relatives and my son had visited El Salvador multiple times. When I was back in Calif a couple years ago, I took them for a memory tour where I lived and went to school. It was fun and they were very surprised about some of it. LOL Ahhhh children…LOL I can’t even get them to take any family items that have been handed down from family to family…pretty sure that is going to stop with my kids. They are living like minimalist ! Xxxxkat

  6. Rowena Post author

    I’m terrifying my kids will be minimalists or even worse, move overseas. That said, I don’t want to burden them down with all I’ve got, plus my parents’ stuff. I was talking to an older lady whose husband had died and she recently moved house. Her husband had collected die-cast pencil sharpeners and had 320 of them which he kept in a glass cabinet. She sold them all off at a garage sale recently but she said the hardest thing was wiping out the empty cabinet. Interesting how grief affects you.
    Meanwhile, I’m sure one of my friends bought a few of those sharpeners and I’m annoyed I missed out. She only lived a few doors away and they went for a song. That said, it could have been divine intervention to keep the amount of stuff here down. xx Ro

  7. New Journey

    both my kids are talking about moving across the pond…they are really fed up with the government and supporting the BS…hope they don’t go but can’t blame them

  8. New Journey

    eastern USA to Europe….my son is dating a gal who wants to go to school in Germany and my daughter and her husband are thinking of Italy or England…

  9. Rowena Post author

    Retros like my husband and I try to stem the tide. We had another discussion about it being “zed” not “zee” tonight. That was after my son and I had a controversial game of Scrabble. He enters the letters into a google thing and it gives him some options but he ended up with a lot of foreign words and Americanisms. I let it go through but I did caution him that we weren’t playing by the rules. My husband is a real stickler for the rules in Scrabble but I think it’s also important to get him off electronics and talking and improving his vocabulary. Much better than the usual teenage grunts you hear about.

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