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Weekend Coffee Share – 26th November, 2023.

Welcome to Another Weekend Coffee Share!

How are you? I hope you are well and such a shame you weren’t able to be a fly on the wall this week to join in with our festivities and indulge in dessert.

Monday was Geoff’s birthday. I’m not going to disclose his real age, but let’s just say that the 21st birthday candles on his cake are a clear indication that he’s beyond a certain age. I wouldn’t say he’s over the hill quite yet, as he hasn’t even turned 60 but he’s working on it, which is a good thing. I wouldn’t want him to short circuit or anything. Naturally, Geoff’s birthday meant cake except I went down the pie path and for his birthday at home I made Key Lime Pie and Banoffee Pie for a get-together with friends. Yum!

Pictured with Richard Glover

In addition to celebrating Geoff’s birthday, we also went to an author talk and book launch with Australian author, journalist and humorist Richard Glover. We had a wonderful time and were overjoyed to have someone of his calibre appear locally where we just had to roll around the corner. So much easier than battling our way down to the big smoke (AKA Sydney) and being overrun by the rat race. I arrived a bit early to buy a book and not only get it signed, but also to get my photograph with him (for the blog of course.) Moreover, I have to admit I was a bit anxious as I also wanted to get a good seat close to the front. After all, I’m a huge fan and I was so excited to be entering into his orbit. Although he had at least three different books on offer, I was very restrained and opted for his biography, Flesh Wounds. I understand he had a tough childhood. He signs my copy “Beat This” and I wonder how his story compares with mine born with hydrocephalus, brain surgery, dermatomyositis and now heading towards a lung transplant. However, that’s only an aspect of my life and while family life growing up had its difficulties and quirky characters, I was loved, my parents are still together and after living in the same house for over 30 years, epitomise stability. Anyway, I get my photo and we take our seats. Richard Glover starts up and I’m thinking he’s pretty good at standup comedy although he’s actually referring to excerpts from his books. He starts talking about his Land before avocado: journeys in a lost Australia. Then, as he’s talking about restaurants ripping out all the sound muffling (ie curtains, carpets), he starts talking about how the barista’s bushy Ned Kelly Beard acts as a sound baffle to absorb the noise. Then, to illustrate his point, he singles out my husband Geoff and his massive Santa Claus beard in the audience as “the perfect sound baffle). Of course, he doesn’t notice me at all, and I was the reason we were there!  It’s okay. All was forgiven and we went back afterwards and got a photo of Richard and Geoff and we bought two more books. That’s right. This weak-willed book addict also bought Land before avocado: journeys in a lost Australia AND Love, Clancy: a dog’s letters home. How could I resist another dog story? Clearly, I’m a pushover, but at least I’m reading them. Well, I’m about a third of my way through. Such a fascinating and gripping read. Highly recommended.

By the way, have you read any of Richard Glover’s works?

Today, I went down to Sydney with Geoff to spend the day with my parents and brother while Geoff was at work. My Mum has dementia and is still at home and anything is possible on these visits. Usually, she plays the piano while I sing along but we didn’t do that today and while she was off having a rest, I got stuck into the spare room mainly going through her excess clothes. Dad’s wanting to renovate, ripping up and replacing the carpet and a lot of stuff needs to go. I made incredible progress and it looked like I had enough to open up a shop when we loaded up the car. Then, as we were preparing to leave, I noticed my mobile phone was missing from the kitchen table and despite calling it and going for a fairly detailed hunt, it remains at large. By this stage, Mum and Dad had gone to sleep so I’m hoping it’ll turn up in the morning. Meanwhile, despite struggling to swing a cat around our place despite months of decluttering, I now have a car load of clothes to sort through. This is going to be a serious undertaking although a charity is holding a clothing drive this Wednesday and I just have to bag stuff up and put it out the front. However, that would be too simple. I need to find out what fits me and I’d rather give the good stuff to someone we know or sell it. Clearly, another “project” has been launched. Oh dear!

Meanwhile, another project awaits…going to bed. I keep nodding off, but I wanted to get this finished.

This has been another contribution to the Weekend Coffee Share hosted by Natalie the Explorer.

Best wishes,

Rowena