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Weekend Coffee Share…9th June, 2024.

Welcome to another Weekend Coffee Share!

How was your week? I hope it went well and you are in good spirits.

You picked a good night to come over to my place. My son has been wanting me to bake him some Anzac Biscuits after his batch didn’t work out a few weeks ago (which kind of happens when you don’t follow the recipe!!) SO, here I am munching on an Anzac Biscuit with the addition of macadamia nuts along with my regular pre-bed cup of decaf tea.

The news about the death of BBC presenter and all-round good guy, Dr Michael Mosley, came through tonight. He’d gone missing on the Greek island of Symi while on holidays with his wife on Wednesday, and they found him today. I don’t know if you have followed his TV shows, but we’ve followed him fairly closely and he also crops up regularly on ads, and most recently he’s done a series on insomnia here which we were quite interested in. So, we are experiencing that strange sense of grief you have about someone you feel you know reasonably well from their public role passes away, along with nowhere to put it. I ended up getting on what I still call Twitter because X sounds ridiculous and has always stood for “X marks the spot” in my mind. However, I thought I’d acknowledge his passing here, and acknowledge a life well-lived cut tragically short.

As you may recall, I’ve been fighting a chest infection over the last few weeks. Well, finally after three scripts of antibiotics, I am on the mend and starting to climb back up the hill again, and even had a session with the exercise physiologist on Friday.

On Thursday night, Geoff and I headed over to the Bloomfield Gallery in Terrigal for the opening of Karen Bloomfield’s fabulous photography Exhibition: Iceland Sub-zero: A Journey of Unexpected Delight. The gallery is just across the road from Terrigal Beach and I stumbled across the gallery dropping my daughter at work next door a few months ago. I wasn’t sure I was going to be well enough to go at all, but thought even if I only managed to stay for ten minutes, it would be better than nothing. However, I was thrilled to last the full two hours and had such a wonderful time. After all, I had the chance to meet with a few local artists and here a few stories about Karen’s trip to Iceland, and had a bit of a thing for the Icelandic horses, which she photographed. Another favourite was a stunning shot of the Northern Lights. I was particularly interested to meet artist Paul Maklin. He introduced himself as a painter and I said to him I could see that. He started looking for flecks of paint, but there were none, but I could just tell he was a painter and artist just by looking at him in the same way you can spot a ballerina in a room full of people even in a pair of jeans. He mentioned he’ll be taking a course at the gallery soon and I was very interested, but feeling rather shy and not quite ready yet. I did, however, mention that I’d been doing some textile pieces since our trip away and he suggested I check out French-American artist, Louise Bourgeois. I did that when I went home and was lost for quite a few hours absolutely rivetted in her work. I must admit I was rather disappointed to find out, there had been an exhibition of her works at the Art Gallery of NSW in Sydney (which is the major art gallery for NSW) and I’d missed it. Damn! They’d even installed one of her giant spider sculptures. How could I possibly have missed that and why didn’t any of my friends tell me about it? I subscribe to so many different places on Facebook and Instagram and yet I still miss out on significant events and exhibitions, while getting flooded with trivia.

Friday night was also food for thought. I’ve mentioned the ongoing battle to get our kids onto their driver’s licenses. Well, our son is a youth leader at Church and Friday night, he needed a lift to bowling about 30 minutes away. My husband suggested he catch the bus. However, we came to a deal where he would drive there, and his sister would drive home, and all I had to do was sit in the front seat and be the supervising driver. In the end, what started out as a grudge, turned into a blessing chatting along while we listened to his choice of music on the way there and her’s on the way home of Billie Eilish’s new album, expanding my musical horizons along the way.

Saturday, Geoff and I headed out to finally get some wool. The nearest shop is about 20 minutes away in good traffic and what with being sick, I couldn’t get there and I’d run out of red. So Geoff very patiently accompanied me on my yarn shop. Was was trying to stick with natural fibres but the vibrant rainbow type colours were only available in acrylic in a pack of 30. I arrived home with 42 balls of wool, which I now need to find homes for along with other stuff. Being creative and minimal living seem to be at loggerheads. Well, they are here.

After getting petrol and going to Bunnings (hardware store), we headed off to Gosford Sailing Club to watch the sunset. Geoff sails there in the laser fleet. So, we managed to get a table out on the balcony overlooking the marina and sunset where we enjoyed a drink and sweet potato fries and had this photo taken of us, which absolutely captures our personality differences to a tee.

Geoff and I at Gosford Sailing Club. Let’s Play Spot the Extrovert.
Cold Feet

Today, I went for a walk along the beach right at sunset. I usually walk along the beach barefoot so my shoes don’t get wet, and I also love the more natural experience of connecting with the beach through my feet. However, I recently quite a shock. The sand was cold, even painfully cold. My husband had no sympathy: “It’s Winter,” he said. However, I’m one of those typical Australian Winter deniers who have this strange idea that it’s hot and sunny all year, when we do at least officially have four seasons, and sometimes even in one day! Indeed, I’ve spent a lifetime hopping around the beach burning my feet on the hot sand, and getting cold feet seems totally preposterous! The sun set behind me away from the beach, and while I missed out on the more spectacular golden glow of the setting sun, I did get those wonderful rosy after tones…particularly after the battery on my phone had gone flat. Teaches me for not taking my Nikon SLR with me.

In terms of other posts this week, there was: No Meaning for Friday Fictioneers and Brisbane Street Art for Thursday Doors.

Time to draw to a close now, and thank you for popping by.

This has been another contribution to the Weekend Coffee Share hosted by Natalie the Explorer.

Best wishes,

Rowena

Weekend Coffee Share – 12th May, 2024.

Welcome to Another Weekend Coffee Share!

How about I heave the dog off my lap and go and turn on the kettle? At this stage of the wee hours, I’ll be having a decaf tea just before heading to bed, but perhaps your body clock is more sensible and you’re just waking up and could use a caffeine boost.

How was your week? I hope it’s been good.

Our family at Church this morning.

Happy Mother’s Day, which is often much easier said than done! I don’t think we gave Mother’s Day much thought when we were growing up. Mum was around. So what? I even had the audacity to ask her why there was a Mother’s Day and not a Children’s Day. She was very quick to tell me that “every day is children’s day”. These days, I’m on the mothers’ side of the equation, and agree with her. The kids can pull their finger’s out for one day and make a bit of effort. Well, at least I hope so. They’re both broke atm so as usual, I bought my own presents: a red necklace I found while we were away as well as Julie Goodwin’s memoir: “Your Time Starts Now”.

The radio station came to our daughter’s school and I’m centre with Julie Goodwin on the right.

As you may be aware, Julie was Australia’s first Masterchef and I have a special connection with her as she came to my house to cook a meal with me following a post here on Beyond the Flow. I was beyond excited and you can click here to check it out: Julie Goodwin comes to our house . UNfortunately, I won’t be seeing my mother tomorrow as our son has a very persistent, endless cough, which isn’t going away.

I am still adjusting to being back home after being away housesitting on the Gold Coast for four weeks with just my husband Geoff and myself while our young adult “kids” stayed home. We had a wonderful time away and it was pure bliss not having to be a responsible adult 24/7 even though we were touching base and not drama free.

The highlight of last week, was going to an art exhibition opening for artist Claire Tozer at the Bloomfield Fine Art Gallery in Terrigal, about a half-hour drive away. I came across the gallery a few months ago when our daughter was working at the pizza and tapas restaurant a few doors up and I was on taxi duty. I’ve been doing a bit of painting lately, and as I mentioned last week, working on a crochet piece. None of this is part of my usual, but I have intermittent spurts of painting and some of my abstract efforts have been good and are hanging up at home. I hadn’t done crochet before and was only making chains which I was sewing onto a round seagrass mat to make a mandala I’ve called “Passion & Peace”. Not sure why I’ve put so much time and effort into it, but I do like it even if it isn’t some grand masterpiece.

I’ve been doing a fair bit of writing and getting back into my blog to write up about our trip. I think I’ve run out of room for more photos now, and will need to revisit my plan. I haven’t been doing much blogging over the last two years, but I’m wanting to save what’s there at the very least and I could well be interested in picking it up again especially now we’re heading into Winter and the weather has been wet and dreary for weeks.

By the way, here are a few links to my travel posts:

In other news, I’m back seeing the Exercise Physiologist and will be increasing from two to three sessions this week. As you may recall, I have an auto-immune disease which has caused fibrosis in my lungs. Consequently, my lung volume has shrunk and I can get quite short of breath. I went through quite a bad spot last year, but had some treatments and went to rehab and had what I’d describe as a vast improvement for me, even if it wasn’t such a big change on my lung function tests. As much as I enjoy my EP sessions, I do get shortness of breath, which can be a bit confronting, as I feel “fine” most of the time.

Are you reading any good books at the moment? I have a few irons in the fire, but put the rest aside this week to read “The Glass House” by husband and wife duo Anne Buist and Graeme Simsion. You might recall Graeme wrote the best selling Rosie Project which turned into the three book Rosie Series. I’ve found it very hard to put it down and haven’t touched it tonight so I don’t stay up to 4.00am like last night, which unfortunately is already looming due to my blogging efforts overnight. I just haven’t been tired and I hate not getting something finished and then there have been a few technical difficulties as usual.

Anyway, on that note, I’d better scoot.

This has been another contribution to the Weekend Coffee Share hosted by Natalie the Explorer.

Best wishes,

Rowena

Weekend Coffee Share – 5th May, 2024.

Welcome to Another Weekend Coffee Share!

My profuse apologies it’s been so long in between drinks, as the saying goes. I’ve been hovering in limbo for some time and the blog ended up on hold. I don’t really know quite what to do with it atm and part of me would like to rev myself up and get back into it again, and another part of me is interested in starting a new blog focused on this new phase of life with kids who have left school, even if they haven’t left the nest as such.

Speaking of which, we recently experienced a bit of a twist on the more conventional empty nester scenario, when my husband, Geoff, and I went away houseminding at Southport on the Queensland Gold Coast for four weeks and left our now adult kids aged twenty and eighteen at home with the three dogs in tow. So, we were actually the ones leaving the nest. Although they were invited to join us, our son is studying and our daughter wasn’t sure about leaving her friends for so long and also felt we needed to get away the two of us. At least, that’s what she said.

So my current blogging plan is to write up about our travels at Beyond the Flow but under the sub-heading of “Beyond the Nest”.

Meanwhile, we’ve now been home for a week. Coming home was never going to be easy, and I guess we all know young adults tend to be domestic Neanderthals, but I’m an eternal optimist and I really did believe they’ve clean up after themselves before we arrived home, and at least have done some washing up while we were away. Leaving the clean up to the last minute and with us having a good run home and arriving early didn’t help. The kitchen tap also came off which threw our son, but we re-directed him to the laundry sink over the phone as we drew ever-nearer to arrival.

The other challenge about returning home, is trying to fit back into the place. Despite concerted efforts to clear out stuff, our placed is still packed to the rafters and beyond and we not only had to fit everything we’d taken away with us back in, we’d brought stuff home as well. Indeed, we’d brought home two bags of exquisite fabric from my retired dressmaker cousin and a few dresses mainly for my daughter and some curtains and there was also a painting by my Great Great Aunt. Special treasures. I also brought home another stack of books. I just can’t help myself, but at least I read a few while I was away, not that they’re ones I could part with. These are definitely keepers.

While we were away, I made a decision to somehow keep the holiday spirit alive when we returned home. To that end, I’ve been on a few local walks this week and after days and days of heavy rain, I was delighted the sun popped its head out for awhile today and I was down for a walk along our local beach in a flash. As you can see from the photos, there were still some massive rain-producing clouds around just waiting to dump their load and its been raining heavy all afternoon and into the night and we’re expecting a deluge tomorrow.

I’ve also been getting stuck into artistic pursuits since arriving home. We went to so many galleries, a couple of exhibition openings while also seeing a lot of street art and sculptures. Talk about inspiring and much of it helped me reframe myself as a potential artist. I am right down the abstract end of the spectrum and I’ve always been hard on myself because I struggle to draw or painting something as it is, but I’ve pulled off some good works over the years, and unfortunately much of what I’ve done has been hidden safely away in an art folder in my bedroom cupboard. Even my closest friends haven’t seen it and it’s all hidden away like a dark secret.

Death to the Polka

Not that I’ve been ashamed of my artworks. I don’t have space to hang it and much of it isn’t the sort of thing you’d have stuck inside a crowded wall. It needs high ceilings and a gallery. In other words, it’s all begging me to have an exhibition, but for me, I’d just want to exhibit. I don’t want to part with any of my artworks. Not yet, anyway. Perhaps, if I increase production, it will be easier to part with it, but I’m not there yet.

Do you do any form of art and do you sell or give your works away? How do you feel about that?

Anyway, as I said, I’ve been making art this week. My main project started evolving while we were away when I saw a round seagrass place mat at a kitchenware shop in Brunswick Heads near Byron Bay. I’ve become quite obsessed with making mandalas of lake and I have been on the look out for a circular surface where I could incorporate wool into a mandala. So this place mat fit the bill and was only $7.00 which is quite cheap for a canvas. I had also picked up a few handfuls of good wool and a crochet hook from the thrift shop nearby. So I was set and it is a shame I didn’t think about crocheting onto the mat until I’d arrived home as I had hours sitting in the car driving home and might’ve had it finished. As it was, I’ve been crocheting for hours and hours and then stitching the chains onto the mat, which has reminded my poor fingers of sewing ribbons on our daughter’s pointe shoes. Once again, there were a few sharp jabs.

I still don’t know why doing this piece was so important and why I’ve prioritised it over my writing and I really have a lot to follow up on from the trip as well as much to get back to. Spending hours doing random crochet is a luxury really, but I felt compelled to go on pursuing the vision in my head, which is more than academic. I’ve called it “Passion & Peace”. I was initially think of having more of a balance, but I have no balance and often very little peace when I’m inspired. I’m consumed like a moth flying into the flame.

Anyway, I do think producing this work was fun.

How was your week? What have you been up to?
I hope you’ve had a great week.

Best wishes,

Rowena

Never A Textbook Mum – Friday Fictioneers 5th October, 2023.

Zelda had always been unconventional, driving her relatively “normal” children crazy. Yet recently she’d joined the local knitting group and things were looking up.

“What are you knitting, Mum?” Jane asked thinking it was a scarf.

“Coats for trees,” she replied.

“Coats for what?” Jane guffawed trying not to choke laughing.

“We’re knitting wraps for trees for the Pearl Beach Ephemeral Art Exhibition at the Arboretum. It was all my idea,” she announced proudly.

“Of course, it was Mum.”

Jane smiled, holding her breath until she could ring her sister from the car.

“Oh my goodness! Mum’s at it again!”

…..

100 words PHOTO PROMPT © Ted Strutz 

Geoff and I went to see the local Pearl Beach Ephemeral Art Exhibition at the Arboretum on Saturday. I understand all of that sounds like quite a mouthful but it was basically a number of more rustic creations in an outdoors bush setting and it was very reflective checking it out with all the bush and a chorus of bird calls all around us.

Wrap With Love is a community of knitting groups which knits, crochets and sews beautiful, warm wraps for those in need including the homeless. They made around 10-20 wraps for the Pearl Beach Ephemeral Art Exhibition which were tried around trees in the bush.

This is another contribution to Friday Fictioneers kindly hosted by Rochelle Wisoff Fields. She posts a photo prompt every week and we write up to 100 words and we share each other’s work online. I’ve found it’s really encouraged me to write.

Best wishes,

Rowena